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About This Page: This is a discussion on Reality Hipcheck within the LetsGoKings.com forums, at Los Angeles Kings Hockey Fan Forum. 1 in 4 teen girls has at least one STD - Kids and parenting - MSNBC.com
Well, that vaccine against HPV (and I do know it's not a panacea and there are issues regarding it) should go at least some way in lowering those numbers, no?
As a parent, my answer to that question would be to create a comprehensive education program. One without personal agendas. Families as always can 'opt out' if they dont like what is being taught, but at some time parents with more 'traditional' values have to realize that little Timmy is gonna hear about it somewhere and if its not going to be from them then it's gonna be from his friends at the playground.
Ive heard fifth graders at my kids school talking about the most ridiculous things having to do with sex. I really had to bite my tongue to hear the things they had to say and not responding in some way. It starts early, so the discussions have to start early. Probably earlier than anyone thinks is appropriate. There are always ways to inform and discuss subjects in an age appropriate manner.
If I had my way, kids in this area would be taught a program that included abstinence, birth control, STDs, and even a bit of psychology. So many teachers and parents put focus on the actual physical act and what to do, that sometimes the heavy emotional toll is skipped... especially for girls. I think part of information has to be that its a HUGE deal and a HUGE responsibility taking on that part of maturity.
Maybe especially because my husband and I were so ridiculously young when we had our kids, I have a different view on it. As cliche as it is, it's absolutely true that nothing is one hundred percent effective but abstinence, and suprises do happen. Kids and teens need to be taught that there are a million outcomes to one act and it is important to make and informed decision. It's hard to make an informed decision when a school only teaches one day of one side and your parents dont talk about it at all.